Hats off to a pro. This isn't the fluffy Cosmo sex stuff (except for the cheesy quiz at the beginning); it has in-depth sections on how to select a good corset, set up the boudoir, how to choose and wield a good whip... Thanks to the handy illustrations, you can learn about the variety of "yoga" positions in which to dole out pain/pleasure, and a few ways to properly and safely truss a person. My inner Girl Scout is bookmarking the sections on knot-tying for future use...??? Well, you never know.